10 Neighborly Things Few Virginians Do Anymore (But Totally Should)

Do you feel like nobody talks to their neighbors anymore?

If you’re from an older generation, it’s kind of wild. Virginia residents used to know who lived next door, help each other out, and plan get-togethers.

But now?

Many Virginia residents just nod politely (if that) and go back inside. Honestly, that’s a shame—because being a good neighbor doesn’t take much, and it can make your whole street feel more like home.

Here’s what Virginia neighbors used to do all the time that we wish would make a comeback.

Helping With Yard Stuff

Have you ever watched a neighbor wrestling with their garden or a broken lawn mower? If you’ve got the skills and a few minutes to spare, jumping in to help is just plain nice.

Back in the day, people didn’t even think twice. They just helped.

Now, it’s like we’re all worried we’ll offend someone or they’ll think we’re weird. But seriously, most Americans are super grateful when someone lends a hand.

You don’t have to spend your whole weekend doing someone else’s chores. But pitching in when someone clearly needs it?

Total neighbor win.

And hey—next time you’re the one in a pinch, they’ll probably remember it and return the favor.

Saying Hey and Stopping for a Quick Chat

Saying “hey” to your neighbor can make a difference. Even a quick “good morning” or a smile can make someone feel seen.

It doesn’t have to be a full-on conversation—just something to show you’re friendly and not a ghost in the house or apartment next door.

The thing is, a lot of us are glued to our phones or just not in the mood to talk. But if we all made a little effort to be more approachable, neighborhoods wouldn’t feel so cold and quiet.

And if you do stop to chat?

That’s how friendships start!

Ask how their weekend was, compliment their new car, say something about the weather (classic move).

Showing Up With a Little Welcome Gift

Remember when people used to bake cookies for the new folks on the block? Yeah, that barely happens anymore.

These days, new neighbors move in, and we just…watch from the window like creepers. Not ideal.

It doesn’t have to be anything fancy. Drop off some muffins, or even just a little card that says “Welcome!” and includes your name and number.

Super simple, super thoughtful.

Moving is stressful. If someone shows up with a smile and a snack, it makes a big difference.

Plus, it breaks the ice so you’re not stuck doing that awkward “we’ve lived next to each other for two years and never spoken” thing.

Keeping an Eye on Each Other’s Houses

Before smart doorbells and security cameras were everywhere, people watched each other’s homes.

Going on vacation?

Your neighbor would grab your mail, maybe water your plants, and keep an eye out for anything sketchy.

Now, people kind of just assume their tech will handle it. But nothing beats a real-life person who knows what “normal” looks like on your street.

Your front porch camera might not notice your back gate swinging open, but your neighbor totally would.

It’s all about trust. Let your neighbor know when you’ll be gone, and offer to return the favor when they leave town.

Knowing someone’s looking out for you? That’s the good stuff.

Sharing Leftovers or Extra Food

So you made way too much chili. Or your banana bread recipe made two loaves and you definitely don’t need that much.

Why not bring some over to your neighbor?

People used to do this all the time, and it was awesome.

These days, everyone kind of stays in their lane, which is fine sometimes… but sharing food is such a sweet way to connect. It doesn’t have to be some gourmet thing. Even a few cookies or a slice of pie can make someone smile.

And maybe one day, they show up at your door with fresh baked goodies. Win-win.

Checking In During Emergencies

When the power goes out, or there’s a big storm, or something weird is going on—do you check on your neighbors? It used to be super common.

People would knock and make sure everyone was okay, especially older folks or families with little kids.

Now? Most Americans assume, “Well, if something’s wrong, they’ll call someone.”

But that’s not always the case. What if they’re stuck, or scared, or just need a flashlight or some water?

You don’t have to be a hero. Just popping by to say, “Hey, everything good over here?” can make a neighbor feel like you’ve got their back.

Throwing a Chill Block Party

Block parties aren’t very common these days, but they used to be the thing. You’d close off the street (or just hang out in someone’s yard), fire up the grill, bring out the lawn chairs, and just vibe.

It was awesome.

Now, everyone’s busy or just not into big gatherings—but even a mini version can be fun.

Invite a few neighbors over for burgers or host a potluck. Doesn’t have to be fancy at all.

These little get-togethers help everyone relax and actually talk to each other. Plus, it’s way easier to ask for help or share favors with people you’ve laughed and eaten chips with.

Swapping Tools or Random Stuff

How many times have you bought a tool you used once and then shoved it in the garage forever?

Happens to the best of us.

But instead of everyone owning their own leaf blower, why not share?

People used to just knock on their neighbor’s door and be like, “Hey, can I borrow your ladder real quick?” And it was no big deal.

Now, we’re all way more hesitant to ask.

If you’ve got something handy, offer it up. And if you need something, don’t be shy.

Just return it when you’re done and maybe throw in a thank-you cookie or something.

Inviting People Over Just Because

You don’t need a special occasion to invite someone over. People used to just say, “Hey, wanna come hang out on the porch for a bit?” Or have coffee. Or play cards. Casual vibes, no pressure.

Now, everything’s either a full-on party or nothing.

But those low-key hangouts? They’re where the real friendships happen.

No need to clean the whole house or cook a four-course meal. Just be chill and make some space for a little company.

Even just once in a while, inviting a neighbor over helps turn “the guy two houses down” into “my buddy Steve.”

Way more fun that way.

Picking Up Trash or Tidying the Block

Nobody likes picking up other people’s trash, but someone’s gotta do it, right?

A clean street feels better. Looks better. And when people see someone else making an effort, they’re more likely to pitch in too.

Used to be, folks took pride in keeping their street looking nice. Now, it’s more like “not my problem.”

But if everyone picks up just a little, things get way better fast.

Next time you go on a walk, bring a little trash bag. Trim that branch hanging over the sidewalk. Just small stuff.

It all adds up—and it shows you actually care about where you live.