15 Friendly Fibs Connecticuters Tell Just to Keep the Peace

Connecticuters are good at being polite… maybe too good.

Instead of saying what we really think, we’ve come up with dozens of little phrases that sound kind but aren’t always true.

Most of us say them without even thinking. They’re not meant to hurt; they’re just part of how we talk.

“I Love It!”

Someone gives you a handmade gift. Or shows off a new haircut. Or serves you a casserole you wouldn’t touch again if you were starving.

You smile and say, “I love it!” because anything else would feel mean.

It’s the American way of smoothing over discomfort. Even if your eyes say “eh,” your words say “wow.”

This phrase keeps the mood light. It avoids awkward silence, and it lets everyone move on without hurt feelings.

Deep down, some people may know when you’re faking it, but they appreciate the effort anyway.

“Let’s Do Lunch Soon!”

This phrase shows up everywhere after chance run-ins, awkward goodbyes, or polite chats at work. It sounds like a plan, but it rarely is.

There’s no date. No time. No follow-up text. Just a warm promise that floats away the minute you part ways.

People say it to keep things friendly. It softens the exit and leaves people feeling good, even when both sides know it’s not real.

No one means harm by it. It’s just a social shortcut. One that says, “I like you enough to pretend we’ll meet again.”

And strangely, it works. Because both people walk away smiling, even if that lunch never happens.

“No, You’re Not Bothering Me at All!”

It’s dinner time. Or maybe you’re finally sitting down to rest. Then someone calls, and without missing a beat, you say, “You’re not bothering me at all.”

It’s polite, and usually not true.

People use this phrase to avoid sounding rude, even when the interruption is less than welcome.

It buys grace, it spares feelings, and it keeps things light in situations that could get tense.

The truth might be, “This is a bad time,” but the polite version sounds much friendlier.

“I’m Almost There!”

This is a classic, usually texted when the person is still at home, looking for their shoes, or halfway through getting ready.

It’s not exactly a lie, but it’s not the truth either.

It’s a way to soften the blow. A quick fix for being late without admitting just how late you really are.

People use it to keep the peace, to avoid the awkward moment of saying, “I haven’t even left yet.”

And the person on the other end usually knows what it really means, but they let it slide because they’ve said it too.

“Sounds Good!”

This phrase is a lifesaver when you want to agree without actually agreeing. Plans, ideas, or vague suggestions — it covers everything.

Even when you’re unsure or uninterested, you say it anyway. Because “Sounds good!” is quick, upbeat, and hard to challenge.

It buys time, and it avoids confrontation.

It doesn’t mean, “I’m excited.” It means, “This conversation is over, and I’m okay with that.”

And that’s why it’s used so often. It closes the door with a smile.

“No Worries!”

You messed something up. You’re running late. You forgot to bring what you promised.

And the other person says, “No worries!”—even though you both know there are some worries.

It’s not a green light; it’s a kindness. A way to make the moment seem less heavy than it really is.

People lean on this phrase when they want to forgive quickly or pretend they’re not upset.

Sometimes it’s sincere, other times it’s just what we say to keep the peace.

Either way, it lets everyone save face and move on.

“I Was Just About to Call You!”

This one usually shows up when you bump into someone you forgot to reach out to or when you answer a call you’ve been avoiding.

It sounds thoughtful, like you were this close to picking up the phone.

But let’s be honest — you probably weren’t.

Still, saying it helps smooth over the gap. It turns awkward timing into a friendly coincidence.

People use this phrase to cover for delay, distraction, or just plain forgetfulness. And most people don’t press. They smile and play along.

“It’s Fine!”

This phrase can mean a dozen different things, and “fine” is rarely one of them.

It might mean, “I’m upset but don’t want to talk about it.” Or, “I noticed that, but I’m choosing not to make it a thing.”

Tone says everything here. And people know how to say “It’s fine” with a smile that doesn’t quite reach their eyes.

It’s not always dishonest, but it’s almost never the full truth.

It’s a signal that, for now, the subject is closed… even if feelings are still bubbling underneath.

“Take Your Time!”

In theory, this phrase is generous. In practice, it often comes from someone who’s very much in a hurry.

It’s what people say when they’re trying to be patient, even if they’re tapping their foot the whole time.

It’s part courtesy, part performance, and sometimes said through gritted teeth.

Still, it’s better than saying, “Hurry up already.” It keeps the tone light, even when the clock is ticking.

“Let Me Check My Schedule”

This is the classic delay tactic, polite on the surface, evasive underneath.

When someone isn’t sure how to say no, they reach for this line. It gives them an out without committing to anything.

It sounds responsible. Professional. Like they’re truly overwhelmed with appointments.

But often, there’s no schedule being checked at all. It’s just code for “I probably won’t get back to you.”

Still, it keeps the moment friendly. And in American culture, that’s half the goal.

“I Totally Forgot!”

Sometimes this one’s true. But other times, it’s a cover for something more awkward—you remembered, you just didn’t want to do it.

Instead of saying, “I didn’t feel like going,” or “I ignored your message,” people say, “I forgot!”

It sounds harmless. Human. Forgivable.

Most people nod along because everyone’s been there, whether they admit it or not.

“You Look Great!”

It’s a phrase that flies out fast at reunions, work events, or anytime someone’s making an effort.

And most of the time, it’s meant to be kind, even if it’s not totally accurate.

Maybe the person does look great. Maybe they don’t. But the words come out anyway, like a reflex.

Americans are taught to compliment first, evaluate later. It keeps things positive, even when honesty might sting.

It’s not a lie meant to deceive; it’s a lie meant to encourage.

“I Didn’t See Your Message!”

This one is a favorite in the age of phones and notifications.

Maybe you saw it and forgot to reply. Maybe you read it and decided to deal with it later. Or maybe you just didn’t feel like answering.

Either way, when the person finally follows up, out comes the line: “Oh no—I didn’t see your message!”

It sounds believable. It buys time. And it’s hard to argue with.

“I Hope We Can Stay in Touch”

This line shows up at the end of jobs, friendships, or any situation that’s quietly winding down.

It’s well-meaning, but often unrealistic.

People say it when they want to leave things on a kind note, even if they know the relationship probably won’t continue.

It gives closure without slamming the door.

People use this phrase to smooth the exit. And both sides usually understand, it’s a soft goodbye disguised as a hopeful one.

“Just Kidding!”

This phrase is usually said after something that wasn’t really a joke.

It’s the safety net, used when someone says something honest, awkward, or slightly too bold and wants to take it back.

“Just kidding!” softens the blow. It gives the speaker cover and gives the listener a way out.